From a systemic perspective, every person has a rightful place in their family and social system. Honoring this natural order—recognizing our position relative to parents, elders, leaders, and peers—allows resources, opportunities, and support to flow naturally. When this order is violated, life responds with resistance, conflict, or scarcity. Exclusion is one of the most disruptive forces in any system. 1. Exclusion in the Family In families, exclusion occurs when a member i